Let's Ruin It With Babies

Let's Ruin It With Babies, an independent film directed by Kestrin Pantera who also stars in it along with Jonathan Grubb and Eva Kim, brings forth the complex dynamics and challenges faced by a modern, ambitious couple when grappling with the decision of parenthood.

Wrapped in endearing humor, quirkiness, and palpable chemistry between the actors, this 2014 film explores the eclectic world of Channing (Kestrin Pantera) and her husband Chaz (Jonathan Grubb). Living in the vibrant city of Los Angeles, they epitomize the energy and spirit of contemporary, independent creative artists. They possess a knack for envisioning and implementing unique concepts, reflected in their projects. Their latest and audacious venture is a modified RV that works as a mobile karaoke unit, creating ripples in the social networks of Los Angeles and garnering extensive attention.

However, just as their novel venture is beginning to bloom, Chaz throws a curveball into their finely tuned life - the idea of starting a family. This immediately raises a predicament for Channing, a fiercely independent woman who has been juggling her career, friendships, and personal identity. She feels drawn and unsure about this traditional life course, struggling with her fear, uncertainty and the implication it has on their personal dreams and ambitions. The movie beautifully embeds this internal struggle and transformation into a tapestry of vibrant characters, edgy humor, and intimate dialogues that shed light on her insecurities and reservations.

Jonathan Grubb, the real life husband of Kestrin, portrays the role of Chaz with a balance of subtlety and charm, bringing a dimension of groundedness to the couple’s otherwise adventurous lifestyle. He perfectly encapsulates the role of a supportive partner navigating his own aspirations of fatherhood. His character embodies the essence of the daunting question about when is the 'right' time to have a baby, and if such a time even exists.

Adding to the stellar cast, Eva Kim gives life to the loyal, outspoken friend who stands by Channing as she fumbles through her dilemma. She aids in diffusing the tension surrounding the baby conversation with a sense of light-heartedness and candor. What's most appreciable about the film is its realness. The story, the dialogue and the acting are extremely relatable and grounded which lends a heartwarming authenticity to the narrative.

Echoing its title, the film bubbles with humorous undertones and spontaneous quips that are ingeniously woven into the narrative, highlighting the absurdity and beauty of life and its unpredictable turns. The film also brings the vibrant arts and party scene of Los Angeles alive, unveiling an idiosyncratic tapestry of characters, energy and zest that adds to the movie's unique appeal.

The technical elements of the film underscore its raw charm. The cinematography is intimately engaging, making the audience feel like a part of the character’s journey rather than just being an onlooker. The film’s indie soundtrack perfectly complements its vibrant spirit, growing and receding with the dynamics of the plot.

Let's Ruin It With Babies is an ode to the beautiful messiness of life, love, ambition, and the funny and beautiful ways these aspects intertwine. It is a heartfelt, unique depiction of modern relationships, personal aspirations and the unexpected challenges that befuddle life's journey. Far from being a mainstream drama, it encapsulates the essence of indie film making with the charm of genuine rawness, outstanding performances, and a storyline that grips you until the end.

This film is worth watching for those who appreciate independent cinema and are looking for a thoughtful, comedic and authentic exploration of the complexities and conundrums that come with the important decisions one has to make in life. It is a poignant reminder that life may not always follow the plan you have, and sometimes, it might just be better that way.